Zen-ness.
If you want to be judgemental of others, don’t blame them for being judgemental of you.
If you want to be blind, don’t cry when you get into accidents.
Before you point fingers at others, please, look at yourself.
Friends come and go, it’s life. Accept it. I’m still trying to.
If you want to bitch about someone, don’t regret when it bites you in the ass.
Plus if you want to bitch about a very good, delicious friend, don’t praise her like she’s an angel a few months later.
We all have our own faults. Nobody’s perfect. We contradict ourselves from time to time. What are true friends? People who stick by you even though you’re a nasty person. They’re not sycophants, well, they’re actually rather mean. But what makes me stick with them? At least they’re honest and good people. They won’t coddle me and say ‘Oh poor thing, still stuck with a curfew let me breastfeed you.’ They’ll say ‘Live with it, or do something about it.’ They’re honest to brutal - I don’t like it sometimes but I’ve got faults that they don’t like too. Like I said, nobody’s perfect. Some of them can be as stubborn as a mule, but nobody’s saying that he’s in the right.
Then again, some friends come and go, and that’s just life. Don’t need to be all nitpicky about it, you’ll only get your fingers dirty.
